My son is dating the wrong girl

But now, he’s entered high school and things are so, so different. Didn’t we just take his first day of middle-school picture off the fridge?

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Admittedly I am not friends with anyone who has teenage girls, for all I know they see boys behaving in the exact same manner. I would not tolerate my own children talking to me in such a disrespectful manner and I certainly would not take it from one of their friends. Then I ignored the next 8 calls from her as we drove the 2 miles home. So far my son says she isn’t bothering him and the phone records support this.

I don’t think it is acceptable behavior for either sex. We hadn’t even pulled out of the school driveway when my phone rang. I haven’t called her mother, but wonder if I still should. Has it really changed in the past couple of decades? If I had teenage daughters would I be seeing it from a completely different perspective?

Realize that over 50% of girls and over 40% of guys never date in high school.

The Bible gives us some very clear principles to guide us in making decisions about dating.

If you answered “yes” to the above questions, then 1 Corinthians 13 says that you truly have a loving relationship.

If you answered “no” to any of the above questions, then maybe you should discuss those issues with your boyfriend or girlfriend.

We should date for fun, friendship, personality development and selection of a mate, not to be popular or for security.

Don't allow peer pressure to force you into dating situations that are not appropriate.

My 13 year old son had a girlfriend for a few months, let’s call her Glenn. Along the lines of, Then they reached the place of being intrusive. I would want to know if my child was behaving that way.

Not because that is her name but because she morphed into the character Glenn Close played in . Glenn would yell at my other kids if they answered the phone and didn’t immediately disclose his whereabouts.

More and more as I witness the teen boy-girl relationships I am surprised at how aggressive the girls seem to have become, compared to what I remember when I was a teenager. Upon hearing the news I think I managed not to do a fist pump in the air until I was in the next room alone.

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