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As a result, foreigners, especially us tall white guys, tend to stand out…“With the number of foreigners in the country so low, it’s not unnatural for women to want to meet and befriend the foreign people that they happen to meet,” tells Madame Riri.I came across a blog post by zoomingjapn, a German girl living in Japan, writing about dating in Japan as a foreigner. She writes, ‘It is comparably easy for a western foreign man to find a Japanese woman or to have a nice relationship here in Japan’, but ‘it is extremely tough to find a date as a foreign woman here in Japan.’ Her story is interesting in itself but the most interesting part of the article is the huge number of comments gets – 162 comments (or about 30,000 words! A lot of people who commented actually disagree with her.
According to Madame Riri, “modern Japanese men are becoming more and more passive,” and are less likely to openly pursue women, stating that “compared to our herbivorous young man, western men are distinctly meat-eaters!
Western men come out and say what they’re feeling; if they like a woman, they tell them.
Dating often involves a lot of hidden rules and non-verbal cues.
These are not the kind of thing you learn in your language textbooks.
But, honestly, with all that money spent on English language education, who can blame them? “I ship out tomorrow…” Visa laws being what they are, the vast majority of foreigners only remain in Japan for a short time.
“With this in mind,” explains the website, “relationships between Japanese women and foreign men often accelerate quickly.
Since he didn’t specify what made him think that girls of his age were childish I can only speculate, but if he doesn’t make effort to unlearn his cultural values and learn new sets of values, he is likely to continue having difficulty.
I’m not saying he should adapt himself completely; it’s ultimately his choice.
‘My biggest problem is that most girls my age (~25) are very childish’, he points out.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating