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The difficult part is when you are left hanging, because you are not sure whether to wait or not.

However, knowing that your ex does not want you back anymore should push you to move on no matter how hard it is.

If you do not do it, you will end up being pathetic from wallowing with bitterness while your ex is freely enjoying his/her new life. If your ex seems unexcited and annoyed seeing you after weeks or months of being separated, then it means s/he is not interested to hear you or see you anymore.

Of course, giving him a clean slate doesn’t mean you have to go back into the relationship blindly. Whatever the reason, it’s important to remember why things didn’t work out the first time and work around those issues. Although it is hard for people to change their ways, it’s not exactly impossible for people to change their ways. Were you too closed-hearted and emotionally available? When you get back with an ex, one of the first things you’ll notice is that all of those old feelings come back.

In fact, rule number four is very simple: Be cautious with your ex (it’s very difficult for people to change their ways, so he might not be as perfect as he seems), but don’t completely mistrust him right away, either. One of the best things to remember when you’re getting back together with an ex is that it didn’t work out the first time. One of the most important things you can do for your new relationship with an old boyfriend is to remember your mistakes and NOT repeat them. I was recently kissed by an old flame with whom I thought I had become “just friends” and suddenly my pulse raced, my heart fluttered, and all those old feelings came rushing back into my head and my heart. But, before you jump into the sack on the first date, treat this relationship like you would any new relationship. The physical aspect and the intimacy should come naturally, but should also be done with caution.

Your ex does not respond to your calls or messages. When you get blocked on Facebook and his/her phonebook, it means your ex does not want you reaching out to him/her anymore. If over the weeks and months your ex never makes any effort to win you back or at least express how s/he misses you, then it is a clear sign. When a person gets tired of a relationship, s/he would not be eager to keep it anymore. So, whenever you two fight, they would tell you to reconcile. However, if this time the family is already cold to you, maybe it is because your ex made it clear to them that s/he does not want to be back with you anymore. However, if after several invitations to dinner or coffee your ex never gives in, then it means s/he is not interested to meet up with you. Even if you already broke up, if your ex still loves you, s/he would not want you to be hurt.

This one is normal if s/he does not answer your calls and messages days after your breakup. However, if after weeks and months your ex does not even bother to ‘seenzone’ your messages on Messenger, and s/he never picks up even if you call every day, then it is clear the person does not want to communicate with you anymore. S/he may even change contact details to make sure you cannot contact him/her. Usually, it is hard to return the things of your ex after breakup if you still love the person, because doing so is like letting the person go for good. If after weeks or months you are still doing everything to win your ex back, but it seems like s/he does not care about it, then you better stop. If the person still wants you back, s/he would not ignore you for a long time, because s/he could not withstand taking you for granted. The person does not want to make any step that can rekindle your affection for each other, because s/he wants complete freedom from you. So, if your ex does not want to get back together, and s/he tells you s/he got tired already, then stop pushing for it. The person would not do anything that would push you away completely, because s/he hopes for reconciliation.

When this happens, just respect the person’s privacy and stop looking for ways to communicate. That is why, if your ex gives you the stuff you gave him/her, it could be a sign that s/he is already letting you go. Nevertheless, if s/he is dating someone else already, and s/he is open to the public about it, then that means you are out of the picture. In the same way, if your ex does not seem to care if you find someone new already, then it means s/he is already over you.

It is like saying s/he is free, single and available to like anyone. If s/he still cares, s/he would normally directly or indirectly express anger or bitterness. This line is a cliché usually used when dumping someone.

Rule number three is similar to rule number one except it takes more effort.

You have to be able to wipe the slate clean before you can get back together with an ex.

Make sure when you get back with an ex that you’re really ready to be with that person again and not just lonely for love.

Also, make sure the past doesn’t become the future. Just another hard working mom who loves her kid, loves to write, can’t cook, and has a thing for tentacles!

You have to forgive and forget, you have to be able to keep the fights clean.

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