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Tip #8 – A lot of men over 50 are pretty insecure when it comes to asking you out.

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Growing up, we weren’t taught who men really are and what makes them tick.

I know I wasn’t and in the past, I made huge mistakes that ended up emasculating men.

Men have no interest in competing with you and that’s exactly what they see it as when you approach them as an Alpha Female.

For a man, this is like dating another man and he isn’t interested in dating men.

I want to know how to handle this all properly and now be depressed in my head. I really like him, I dont want to be depressed over it. Maybe you should have tried harder taking things slow.

I like him, respect him, and I hope to meet his children one day. Im trying to just focus on me and I cant guarantee Ill be ready or around once he is. It sounds like you may have scared him off by trying to move too fast. But, now, you are upset because he didn't want to move on to instant "US" status. Do you still want to see him or are you all ready looking for your next true love? You will never come first in his life, his children will.

If you like a man, encourage him with eye contact, a warm smile or a flirt online to let him know you’re interested.

Remember, men weren’t given a Dating Rulebook with their divorce papers either.

Plus he has children and their feelings about the break up of their family to think about. I am trying hard to go slow, I guess I don't know how to do it. I just have this thought that he is doing all of this cuz he wants to go back to his ex, which I honestly don't think so, but my anxiety does! That will go to his children first, then his ex-wife.

I can tell you, four months out of a divorce, he's not looking for the next Mrs. I hang on so tight that they slip out of my hand, I get attached too easily, I am a very attractive young woman, I didn't have a dad growing up, no close relationship with my brother, I don't know... Im not looking for true love this very moment, I know if I rush into something It will all fail, thats what happened to my last two relationships, I don't want that. He said earlier that he wants to be friends "for now" He said he thought he was ready for a relationship but isnt "right now" I asked him if he was going back to his ex wife and he said "no, not at all", Im not trying to set myself up for failure", how could I be with someone else when I cant stand up on my own two feet alone? In all honesty this is kind of good, I need to find balance in my own life and I dont have that right now, I need to concentrate more on me and establish myself more. His children will always take away from time with your and your relationship with him.

i've never dated a man with children and I just want to do the right thing! In your original post you even said you moved too fast. Despite how long he and his wife were separated, despite how long it's been since the divorce was finalised(and in this case it really wasn't that long)he's dealing with the end of a marriage and that's a pretty serious big deal. You say you're going to back off to the point where you won't even be around anymore. Now, instead of giving in to your paranoia(and does this have some basis? Because we could be looking at the genesis of your problems.} you should calm down and see where this goes. If you are willing to give it another shot, and at this point it all hinges on you, remember to go as slow as you can go. He can never give you 100% of anything time, money.

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